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Okay, real talk time. You’ve just finished writing what might be your best book review yet. You’re feeling pretty good about it, finger hovering over that “post” button, when suddenly… do I tag the author or not?

Why You Might Want to Tag Authors (The “Yes” Team)

It’s All About Building Those Bookish Connections

Look, when you tag an author in a glowing review, magic can happen. I’m talking about real conversations, genuine friendships, and that warm fuzzy feeling when an author you admire actually responds to your post. Especially with indie authors or debut novelists, your review might literally make their day (or week, or month).

You’re Actually Helping Their Career

Here’s the thing: when you tag an author in a positive review, you’re not just being nice—you’re being strategic. That author is probably going to share your review, which means their followers see your thoughtful analysis. More eyes on your blog = more readers discovering your amazing content. It’s a total win-win situation.

Sometimes You Just Want to Say Thanks

There’s something pretty special about being able to directly thank someone for creating something that made you laugh, cry, or stay up until 3 AM because you HAD to know what happened next. When you tag an author, you’re basically sliding into their DMs with a virtual hug.

Why You Might Want to Skip the Tag (The “Nope” Team)

Let’s Keep It Real About Honesty

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: when you know an author might see your review, it’s harder to be brutally honest. Even if you’re trying to be fair, there’s this little voice in your head going “but what if they see this?” And suddenly your three-star “it was fine but not amazing” review becomes a four-star “it was pretty good!” review. Not cool.

Nobody Wants to Hurt Someone’s Feelings

Authors are humans (shocking, I know). And humans have feelings. Even the most constructive criticism can sting when it lands directly in your notifications. Some authors handle feedback like champs, others… well, let’s just say Twitter has seen some things.

Professional Distance is a Real Thing

Some reviewers prefer to keep things professional. They see themselves as critics first, cheerleaders second. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to maintain that boundary between reviewer and author.

So What’s a Book Blogger to Do?

The Golden Rule: Stars Don’t Lie

A lot of us use the “4-5 star rule”: tag authors for your raves, skip the tag for anything 3 stars and below. It’s simple, it works, and it keeps everyone happy. Your 5-star review gets the author excited, your 2-star review doesn’t ruin anyone’s day.

Do Your Homework First

Before you tag anyone, take a quick peek at their social media. Are they the type who loves interacting with readers? Do they seem chill about mixed reviews? Some authors literally ask people to tag them in everything, while others prefer to discover reviews on their own time.

Timing Matters Too

A book that came out last week? Yeah, that author might appreciate the tag. A book from 1987? Probably not necessary (unless you’re reviewing a reissue, then maybe!).

If You’re Going to Tag, Here’s How to Do It Right

When You Do Tag:

  • Keep it real but respectful (even in positive reviews, you can mention tiny flaws)
  • Don’t go overboard with the gushing just because you’re tagging
  • Talk about the book, not the author’s personal life
  • Be yourself—fake enthusiasm is obvious and awkward

When You Don’t Tag:

  • Your review can still be honest without being mean
  • Maybe add a little note like “honest review” so people know you’re being transparent
  • Remember: authors can still find untagged reviews if they search
  • Focus on helping your readers decide if they’d like the book

Platform Drama is Real

Different platforms have different vibes, you know? Instagram tends to be more chill and friendly, Twitter can be… intense, and Goodreads is somewhere in between. An author might love Instagram comments but find Twitter mentions overwhelming. Pay attention to how authors interact on each platform.

Your Blog, Your Rules (Obviously)

At the end of the day, this is YOUR blog. If you want to tag authors in every positive review because you love building connections, go for it! If you prefer to keep things professional and untagged, that’s totally valid too.

The important thing is being consistent and maybe letting your readers know what your deal is. A quick “I tag authors in 4+ star reviews” in your bio or about page sets expectations and shows you’ve thought about it.

Let’s Wrap This Up

The book community is pretty amazing because we’re all here for the same reason: we’re obsessed with books. Whether you’re a tagger or a non-tagger, we’re all just trying to share our love of reading and help other people find their next favorite book.

Tagging authors can create beautiful connections and support writers, but it’s not the only way to be part of the community. Some of the most respected book bloggers never tag authors, and some of the most beloved ones tag everyone. There’s room for all of us.

The most important thing? Be authentic. Stay true to your readers. And remember that we’re all just book nerds trying to talk about the stories we love (or didn’t love so much). As long as you’re respectful and genuine, you’re doing it right.

Now stop overthinking it and go write that review! Your TBR isn’t going to read itself.

So what’s your take on tagging authors? Team tag or team no-tag? Drop a comment and let’s chat about it! And if you’re new here, hit that subscribe button for more bookish discussions and way too many opinions about fictional characters.

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